Friday, December 19, 2008

He is just a Bad Kisser.

“My one of the Girl friend had left her ex boy friend only because of this.”

Really I surprised and as support to him, asked to her that he didn’t know for that time but he easily can learn, it is not a rocket science probably you could take a chance to teach him or he made mistake for nervously on his 2nd date. She was getting angry and argued without rudely this is very simple thing and have this quality before start to love someone. I asked “Do you know your breast size does change 11 times for your whole life cycle? Even how many times you are changing your bra size as per change your breast size, but you keep adjusting to yourself”. She replied that is silly thing I am not so bother about that. I replied “then why are you not keeping your attention only on how much he loves to you or how many times made you happy? Don’t bother about silly thing and adjust which no so affected your love life”





As you know that was a never end real story but still I know she didn’t asked to him for next date yet. She probably is finding such a good kisser gentleman. But Guys we have to improve us because researchers are saying different scenarios.


In a study published recently in the scientific journal "Evolutionary Psychology," 59 percent of men and 66 percent of women said they've been in the position of being attracted to someone -- until they kissed the person.

Some Gender differences uncovered by researchers:
• Men show a greater preference for tongue contact and open-mouth kisses.
• Men are more willing than women to have sex with someone without kissing, as well as to have sex with someone they are not attracted to or consider to be a bad kisser.
• Women place more importance on kissing throughout a relationship, whereas men place less importance on it as the relationship progresses.
Source:- http://www.cnn.com/2007/LIVING/personal/12/03/bad.kissers/index.html#cnnSTCText



I don’t know why we are not giving us to time to forget about some silly thing for time being of our self to build a good relationship and make happy each other. Mainly we can’t compromise whatever our special desire thing from love. I think this is one type of expectation which initiate for very early stage of our life by subconscious mind and this make you very hard enough to take that type of decision on certain. I do not agree with “move on” story because how many times you get a chance to give life for experiment or how much time you have to give chance for can move life? It is not just a sacrifice I think it build you strong enough to survive. Nobody is perfect. If we want all desire things in a single package, c’mon guys in real world, if you are luckiest enough to get that then it is different case but mostly guys are not so lucky as much you, so mostly guys never dumb someone for it which doesn’t make strong relationship for survive longer.



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Thursday, December 18, 2008

Relation Vs Me

“Perhaps some sort of time I being used by one relationship luckily”-Me.

Yes, I know it is not so simple to judgment of any relationship when you are involved on it, then who has right to reaching a good sound of judgment?

I am changing my working company mostly each and every year very easily without any hesitation and any regret but as simple can we ditch (Leave) any relationship(Please don’t laugh, I know some friends are didn’t change their company only because of emotional attachment!), because of there are.








Only given and take relationship?
Or only because, there are no such human to human bond?
Or we grew up with this Habituation?








Can you agree on that each and every month, ratio of changing company by per person and divorce rate is reducing? What do you think? It seems to we are now growing up with this Habituation!







“Every day I am learning how can let me to bigger then my relationship.”-Me

How much time we are wasting our time to calculate and debating to find out how much Loves revert back to each even 1% of that much time I didn’t give to my relationship to build it strong enough to resist but you know one thing! You can’t build enough strong happy relationship by alone without help of other side. I think this is the beauty of this GAME.

Both of we enough loved, Helped, Understood . . . each other as much required for establishment of a relationship. But I never understood or respected that some unexpected, unlike, unconditional but logical some rule will simultaneously introduce with establishment of a relationship. If either of you are good enough in social logical human being or you have extra ordinary simple capacity to recognize them then ok otherwise it will be a totally different scenario.

Ex1:- There upon a day when I asked her why you did like this? You know na it is my insulting, As usual after long argument she agreed yes it will some sort of insulting to them who think much more about so little thing. Nowadays nobody have time to think about those things.


“Please don’t try to make your opinion as a public.”
I want to say this but I couldn’t because I came to know one thing that somebody didn’t have enough capacity to recognize logical rule of relationship or don’t want to put such effort to recognize or just utilizing for self benefit. Whatever, final Output for all these cases are same. You are smart enough to think about rest.


“Who will decide what is wrong or what is right or how much limit you have to enjoy for self benefit?”


I want to say this but again I couldn’t because I had learnt beauty of this GAME. “Who wants to think only oneself instead of relationship those person can’t give minimum *respect to that relationship in which they own self involve and please believe me they never can love someone.


*Respect to Relationship: - It is just a simple expectation from each other without asking to each other.